Parents: Letter to Parents | Helpful Hints

Helpful Hints for Parents

• Be happy and supportive with your son or daughter's choice of fraternity or sorority.
• Remember that this is your student’s choice, and they should choose the chapter that they feel is right for them, regardless of legacies or family history!
• If you have a question about fraternity or sorority life, go to the source and ask the University Advisor. Don't buy into gossip or hearsay. We want you to have the best information possible!
• Encourage your student to attend programs sponsored by the Student Activities Center and Greek Life.
• Know the name and phone number of the chapter president, new member educator, big brother/big sister, chapter advisor, and house director (if applicable).
• Ask for details about the financial aspects of membership. Each chapter governs its finances individually. If you are paying, you deserve to know! Many one-time fees are paid in the first semester, so expect the first semester to be the most expensive.
• Initiation is an important time for the new initiates. Be supportive and respectful of this time for your student. Our new member programs at SMU are limited to 8 weeks of activities. Initiation dates should be made public to the new members.
• Talk with your son or daughter! Phone calls, e-mails, letters and care packages are always appreciated.
• Attend SMU Family Weekend and visit the fraternity and sorority receptions on Friday night following the Talent Show.
• Get involved with the chapter's Parents' Club.
• Expect to see new t-shirts, photos, and other Greek paraphernalia.
• Encourage your student to be a part of the SMU community and take advantage of our numerous resources.